It is with deep sorrow that we share news of the passing of a beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin, uncle and friend who left the world far too soon at the age of 40.
Son of Dr. David Paterson and Susan (Renaud), James was the youngest of four, alongside Katie (Bill Kenney), Patty (Sean Smith) and Jaclyn. To his family, he will always be David James Joseph Davy Crockett Georgie Russell Paterson.
James was the "surprise" that completed his family. A unit founded on love, compassion, humour and adventure. As the only boy and the youngest, he was sometimes teased, and forever adored. James loved a lot, laughed a lot, lived a lot and will be missed a lot.
Family and friendship shaped James' life - they were his foundation and his purpose. He cherished and nurtured both deeply and the best he could throughout his life. His relationships with his nephews (Mac, Jake, Jackson and Cooper) were profound. Uncle James! - was said with so much love, and always a giggle.
James inspired a belly laugh that felt like a hug. He had a gift for connection, forming friendships wherever he went - truly too many to count. His presence brought people together and his easy going nature, his quick wit, and genuine heart left a lasting impression on everyone lucky enough to know him. His relationships were real and important.
He found joy in the simple things: time on the water (Lake St. Clair, Dick Lake, White Lake, Pike Creek), a good sauna, "shredding the gnar" (wakeboarding and snowmobiling), a round of golf, chilling in the garage, a stocked spice cabinet and some decent Jeopardy! questions. A friend to animals, James would always hold a special place in his heart for dogs...but also cats, squirrels, beavers, otters...maybe not so much geese.
Though his loss is immeasurable, his joy will inspire and be carried forward in the memories and stories of all those who called him their friend. James will be deeply missed, forever remembered and always loved. Sometimes you realize how much space they take in your heart, only after they are gone. James may not have known how deeply he affected those who knew and loved him. Please share condolences and memories at www.windsorchapel.com. Stories of the best of times with James will uplift those missing him.
A private family service will be held to honour James' memory. A celebration of life will follow in a few months' time - when the sun is out and it's warm and sunny on Pike Creek and Lake St. Clair.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Windsor/Essex County Humane Society.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Windsor Chapel Funeral Home - Banwell Chapel (11677 Tecumseh Rd. E, 519-253-7235).